oh yeah. like I said I told them pretty much everything, but some things just... how do you explain the bad stuff? or the awkward stuff that you're over now? is that just opening up wounds or is it really necessary?
Honestly, I haven't really said much to her unless she asked. If they want to know, that's one thing, but giving it to them anyway feels a little mean. Or like you're doing it more to make yourself feel better than anything that's helpful.
maybe it would be different here. you know, we all have to fuck, APPARENTLY.
yeah I wouldn't go telling people stuff that they don't want to know. I try to ask or at least like get an idea of where we stand. that's just selfish to say it without them asking or wanting. esp when we can't DO anything about it period.
It's not the kind of place I'd want to see anyone end up in. Really, the alternative is... getting closer to a couple people than maybe you planned on.
If you ever want to talk about it, I get it. I've been there too, more than once.
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oh yeah. like I said I told them pretty much everything, but some things just... how do you explain the bad stuff? or the awkward stuff that you're over now? is that just opening up wounds or is it really necessary?
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Honestly, I haven't really said much to her unless she asked. If they want to know, that's one thing, but giving it to them anyway feels a little mean. Or like you're doing it more to make yourself feel better than anything that's helpful.
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yeah I wouldn't go telling people stuff that they don't want to know. I try to ask or at least like get an idea of where we stand. that's just selfish to say it without them asking or wanting. esp when we can't DO anything about it period.
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Honestly, it sounds like you're being a good friend to me.
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thanks. I'm trying. it's definitely not the kind of situation I ever thought I'd be in.
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If you ever want to talk about it, I get it. I've been there too, more than once.